Safety & guidelines
Cupidate is for adults looking for genuine connection. These rules keep it that way.
Our community rules
- You must be 18 or older to use Cupidate.
- Be yourself — real name, real photos, no impersonation.
- No harassment, hate speech, threats or unsolicited explicit content.
- No soliciting money, promotions, spam or commercial activity.
- Treat every match with the respect you'd want in return.
Tools in your hands
- Block anyone from their profile or your chat — they disappear from your world, and you from theirs.
- Report a profile in a few taps; our team reviews every report.
- Hide your profile any time in Settings and stop appearing in Discover.
- Only people you have matched with can message you.
Meeting in person
- Meet in a public place for the first few dates.
- Tell a friend where you're going and when you expect to be back.
- Arrange your own transport there and back.
- Never send money, gift cards or banking details to a match.
- Trust your instincts — leave any situation that feels wrong.
Need help?
Reach us on WhatsApp or through the contact page and we'll respond as quickly as we can. In an emergency, always contact local authorities first.